100 Love Letters Never Sent (When you're in places like this...) (C) 2018

When you're in places like this, they call it empathy, when you're and they're sharing such intimacies of life it's too possible to lose you're identity and take on their identities. It is a sickness to be someone/something else. Your identity becomes them their identity becomes you; or peaces of them become you. Could this be why someone leaves places like this with more serious problems.

"Women trigger me. Every time I get good they drag me down." I was choked He was saying somethings that I was thinking; until, "We were doing the nasty. She demanded, 'CHOKE ME.' At first, I was like, 'B##ch you crazy.' But when things got all hot and heavy. You become lost in the moment sho'enuff' I put my hands around her neck, choked the sh*t out of her. Couple days later I come home. All her things were gone. Police came knocking on my door. Crazy b#*ch pressed assault charges on me. I ended up in jail. Went to court. Her parents said all these crazy things about me. All lies! It ruined me. I lost my job, my credibility. After all that, I decided to stick to porno..." He went on and on; until the therapist cut him off asking,"What year? When did that happen to you?"

"Oh about twenty years ago," he replied defeated he slumped over. That shut him down.
"You got anything to say?" She asked me. All I could do was cry.

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