The New frontier of introspection 11 Oct 2013

The greatest joy in teaching is when the role is reversed through sincere self-less service and disciplined methodologies I learn from those I teach. One valuable lesson is that when things don't go the way I planned-I am quick to define a meaning which is self-centered and imposes another's serenity and inevitably my own. A universal example is when someone says or does something, "She did that to make me feel bad." "He said that to hurt me." It is a mistake to rationalize why someone does a particular action because I have not selflessly allowed that person to be who they are. When I rationalize what might be and what could be I am not making the most out of "the great now."

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